Many of us have had toxic relationships—especially in love.

A number of questions immediately come to mind.

Are you still allowing yourself to be in that toxic relationship?

Have you put your foot down?

Do you realize you deserve more in life?

Why do you think it’s OK to accept those toxic relationships in the first place?

What did you do to deserve such negative painful or abusive circumstances?

Well I am here to let you know very clearly, that you that you do not deserve any of the above. You deserve only the very best your soul mate.

Each of us have a soul mate. Whether you believe or not, that’s up to you. But, I know for a fact, they are real and you have one. We all do. We are not here to settle for less.

Toxic people want to make us toxic because it makes them feel better but that is just not right at all. We are here to be loved, held, heard, trusted, and for us to trust someone plus much more. Know this that being able to put your right foot forward and take the steps that are needed so that you can have true happiness is not as hard as you may think.

I have worked with so many people and one thing I know is that none of us want to be unhappy! We all want to be happy truly but we may not believe it is possible I’m here to tell you it is possible.

Someone very close to me was in a toxic love relationship, even though this person knew better. This person I loved so dearly could not get out of the toxicity until this person themselves figured out ( oh my I’m in a toxic relationship I don’t want this anymore I’m done. )

We can not help those who are not willing to help themselves is my point even though it caused great pain and tears in my heart. I had no choice but to wait it out and not be involved in the disconnection part. You today need to open your eyes and ask yourself are you in love or is it just the fear of no one else loving you.

I promise you will be loved much more by someone then this toxic person around you. They are like poison and love to inject you with their dosages every once in awhile so that you keep being unable to see the truth. The truth is,without you this person would be just moving on to the next person to poison.

You cannot be the savior. I frequently hear from people, “Well I will sacrifice my life to change this toxic person so no one can be hurt.” But I have to say this is wrong. This is not the answer and you do not have the skill the ability or the knowledge on how to do this as well. So leave it to the professionals.

Know that God our creator does not want to see you have any damage to your heart, your body, your emotions, or any other part of you or people that are a part of you as well kids or family. People can be very unkind and this is a shame but the shame is on them not you. Don’t be shamed by others because you decided to allow someone to make you toxic and do not accept all these toxic ways such as you being cheated on, or maybe you’re being abused emotionally or physically. We know deep down, it’s not okay.

Remember that you have an angel who never leaves you, ever. So ask for help,ask for signs or suggestions on how to get out of your toxic relationship. Change now because there is no perfect timing.

Meditation is always advised. It’s so good for your clarity, Let the mediation help you heal so that you may see the light once again.

God bless

Tammy Adams