Listening is how we can heal.
Often people come to me with an agenda having certain things they want to know or direction on how to solve a very troubled matter they are dealing with. In cases like this, I try to do all I can to ease those questions and guide them in the direction their GUARDIAN ANGEL is telling me.
The real truth is that sometimes I need to not worry so much about what my client wants answered and give him/her the answers and direction I am being told from their angel.
Easing my client’s minds and helping giving him/her that assurance is really not helping them at all when I know that the person coming really needs to be told to just do the very thing they had no idea was going to be mentioned today.
Sometimes I get caught up in helping to heal people’s hearts, when I really need to look at how they may have become blocked even before that. I see things I sometimes don’t always like to say but in the end it is best I share it.
I watched a marriage being split up because my client was unable to open their heart. Why?
Because her trust was broken long ago as a child during the act of mistrust and molestation. It had nothing to do with the other person in her marriage; it had to do this with her pain that was deeply hidden through many walls put up long ago.
When I am helping my clients, it is great to give them the truth no matter what this may entail because the reality is, even though it may hurt today or even a week later, the true healing can now begin.
Loving your partner that listening and truly being unconditional with love is the true healer and this will break any walls that have been put up.