We feel as though we need these people because they actually empower us it makes us even feel better about ourselves. We make up these stories that we must keep these toxic people around because we need to learn, because we need to help them, or maybe because it’s our karma. Funny thing is about 99% of the time, it’s wrong to do any of the above keeping people who are harmful to us in our lives. It is not a good thing in any way, shape, or form. We are here to be happy. I will say this in each newsletter, each blog, and every radio show, or session I have.
I believe with every breath I take and every cell in my body, that God our creator, has given us life to be happy and not to suffer. Why do you think you have the toxic people in your life? Why are you keeping the people who are hurting or using you in your life? Why do you get convinced that you are here to suffer or sacrifice? What makes you think you should be unhappy or no longer have inspirations to better your life? Rather than smiling, you are crying or confused. Point is, you are in some sort of negative state, not a happy one. That’s for sure.
If you are having more bad days than happy days, something’s wrong. If you have more, “I’m sorry” from people around you, then this is not ok. It’s not ok for you to settle for less we are not robots we have emotions and we have feelings so let your emotions and York feelings to take over be who you are meant to be and wake up.
Let yourself stand up for who you are and stop putting up with abuse of being taken advantage of we get taken advantage of and say it’s ok at least this is what my clients tell me and my answer is (no that is wrong! )
Do not think of it as a learning lesson. Do not say to yourself it is something to help you grow. Just stop and change now to help yourself.
If you cry alone it does not mean you’re not crying. Just because you hurt alone, it does not mean you’re not hurt. Wake up and see you’re sad; be done with toxicity and stand up for you.
Pat yourself on the back just for following these blogs and staying on top of this month’s progress. Be proud of who you are and how awesome you are in so many ways—even if you do not see these wonderful gifts you have to share with someone. You will when you begin to open up and look in the mirror at yourself.
You are a gift, a wonderful person, so let the world see. Share your gift with someone who cares, not with those who will take. Try not to be afraid of the word NO! The word NO means you’re in control of your life and you no longer will put up with toxicity. Believe in you and in all you are.
Let this month be your time to share this blog with someone who needs it as well. Remember to keep a journal of your progress to help you see your amazing improvements.